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i have being with beautifull girlfriend for 11 years now,we both have being 100% faithfull and loyal to one another and we were due to be married this summer but like all couples we had our ups and downs and we got over them but this time it is serious and on the 9th of march 2009 my sole mate left me and iam broken hearted with her loss and i can only put it down to one reason why she might have left.in febuary last year my girlfriends eldest sister was diagnosed with cancer and in august 2008 she died and suffered alot and this took alot out of me,my girlfriend and her family as we all loved her sister.her family were so close to her and i know they miss her so much.i noticed at the start of this year my girlfriend was not doing to good with her sisters loss and as were getting on so well together i thought we were ok but the suddenly she left me and to this day i have not heard from her and i was hopeing i would by now but i miss her so much and i want to work this out but at the same time i want to give her the space she needs,her last words to me was she loved me she even took all our photo's and this gave me hope that she would come back but now iam is dispair and i dont know what i can do to keep going with out her,has anyone out there gone through the same as iam,thanks dave.

That just plain sucks!! I would wonder why, if she loved you, she would do such a thing? Wasn't talking an option? Did the two of you communicate much with each other? Perhaps - I would clasify this as either she had a full mental break down and can't function on the simplist level or she wanted to end things and took the easy way out. You should prepare yourself to either (A) contact someone who knows her to check on her wellbeing and/or (B) begin to move forward with your life and find some happiness. Why continue to suffer and torment yourself, when you have no way of knowing what happened? I am left wondering could someone who was healthy and truly in love with you do something like this? Would you ever be able to trust her again? Just a few things to think about.....