How can I cut off ties with my best friend? Please read the details.
Me and my bud have been best friends for about 4 years now. In between we got in a fight, and I told him that I was cutting ties with him. We met two months later and we talked things over and now we are friends again. The only problem is that I shouldn't be his friend. A year ago him and his other friend have started to disrespect my girlfriend. I had confronted them about it and they said they would stop but they never did. This led to us not becoming friends anymore, until we started talking again as previously mentioned. I feel guilty though since I missed talking to him sometimes, but I know that it was wrong for him to disrespect her. We aren't as close anymore which does seem like it can make it easier to cut the ties, but I don't know how. I don't want him to disrespect my girlfriend. I'm also worried since he knows a little dirty secret of me and I don't want him to get mad and spread it.