By realizing how AWESOME you are!! Don't be cocky though. No one likes a cocky person. Admit your flaws, but know that you would not be you without them.
No probs. =) First work on yourself, and then approach the women.
Yep. I heard a quote that said, "Life is not about finding yourself, it is about creating yourself", which sounds pretty stupid, but I like the "creating yourself" part. =)
find a nice one. the confidence will come. ******* make it never come back