I know what you are going through. My Wife and I had a falling out back in May....she was cheating on me and I found out. I tried to end my life over it. The problem is not yours to have to work out. I too have a Daughter who is 17 years old and she is trying to fix something, that is unfix-able. Something has happened in their relationship, that has brought it to this point. My problem is, my wife of 23 years won't talk to me. Usually the person who is unwilling to talk is at fault for something they don't want to admit. Don't feel like you are in the middle and don't place yourself there. Grown ups have to learn to work things out on their own. Some of life's problems are too big to understand....even for adults, so let it work itself out. I'm sorry you feel this way. Be strong. (HUG)
They may have deeper issues than this. Best to just be supportive and hang back.
Neither did I. 18 years later I am having thoughts. There is little for you to do but sit and watch. I know it is **** deal but such is life. You are their child and nothing that will happen will change that.
If he is a man, which judging by the desc<x>ription he sounds like one, then he doesnt know how to talk he probably prefers grunting and he probably feels hurt so his natural defence mechanism is to withdraw from the situation which only makes worse. You have to slowly pry him back out so keep on him and make him understand
Tell him what you are scared of and tell him what you want. Ask him what he wants.
nothing will happen just a instant reaction, happens in married life.. dont worry this will not lead to divorce
i will divorce u is a common threat given in between married couple.... but moral values dont let it be done..
only in some cases it happen
Just go point blank at him and say it. Tell him how you feel and what you see. Then you've said what you needed to and it's up to him to respect it or not.
get used to it..... Your boyfriend will NEVER understand this either!
good for you.