Uh.... Get a new boyfriend!
*laugh* You are too funny Girlfriend. :)
1st thing that came to mind.... :)
thats about right. some guys dont like it, I knew a guy that didnt like to get blow jobs. I thought he was crazy but hey what ever floats your boat. @ likkmee Great profile pict BTW .
From experiance being in a long term relationship and not being on the same page sexually can wreck a relationship . It's wrong for him to want you to preform orally and not return the favor.
**** him (but not really)<br />
If it's any consolation, he probably sucks at it anyway. You would just be laying there feeling sorry for him and wondering when he was going to stop treating you like a dog treats its water dish. All slobbery and repetitive with no sense of technique or variety.
That's been my experience too.
Find a bf (like me) who relishes the art of pleasuring a woman! I adhere to a rule when I give oral to my partners, unless there are extenuating circumstances I strive for a minimum of three ******* before moving on to other areas. However I've always been a giver when it comes to sex. I love to make women happy and in so doing I receive my greatest pleasure. In lieu of actually trading up to the big leagues though, I would recommend open dialogue whenever he is "trying" to please you orally. Men do want to be good at it, but some who aren't naturally gifted like I am, need some direction. And for us guys, having you express your pleasure is a huge turn on. I know you ladies like for us to know what we're doing, but until we reach a level of proficiency that pleases you, you might need to give some input. Try it! Have some great fun in the process, I know I will!
i have the same problem, I think your man is similar to mine, a domineering alpha type who always demands his way and very straightforward and blunt about his likes and dislikes.. He is a selfish guy who demands service, and im quite happy to give him blow jobs to make him feel good, and he says i give the best he ever had with his past girls.. BUT when i softly whispered to himone time when we were in bed "i wanna feel good too" He simply said smiling "i dont like to suck *****." very direct and straightforward that i didnt know how to respond to that..
*** for tat... none from him, none for him. and if that doesn't work, don't let him have any ***** at all from you till he learns to do it right.
cut him off until.
Put him on a blow-job ban until he gets down there -- Or just get a new man that does reciplicate. <br />
You now know that there are many willing tongues around.
You meant "reciprocate."
Many doesn't like.... Its my favourite thing to start...<br />
You initiate & he might start liking doing it for you...
Don't expect him to change from being a selfish so&so.
If you're already a giver, next time your night is heating up, tell him " you first.". Fair is fair.
Maybe he feels self concious of not being able to do it right. But definitely stop giving it to him unless he reciprocates.
What doesn't he like bout it?
Get another guy (like me) who loves doing it.
Easy - get a new boyfriend
The conversation starts like this, Do you enjoy having sex with me? Do you want to continue to have sex with me?
me might be having eew feeling..<br />
have a clean shave with a mild perfume edible gel..<br />
make him to create interest in it..<br />
it depends on you how u convince him
you can't. time to find one who will.
Do you shave? I know a lot of guys who won't go down on a woman unless she completely shaves.
You go down on him and he doesn't reciprocate? WTF??? Time to find a new man, honey.<br />
You might first try to find out if he dislikes it in general, or has some issue with you in particular. (?) I won't insult you and will assume you are clean...maybe he can clue you in on what his hang-up is?