Resolved Question

How can i get my cat to calm down hes always wanting to run but never just sitting ,and letting me pet him?

If I remember correctly, there is a phrase that was coined to explain those times of day when cats go insane all over the house, it's called "FRAP Time" (Feline Recreation And Play Time)

All of my cats are strictly indoor cats, and I have found that they can be a bit crazier than ones I've had that have access to outdoors. I have found it is important, especially when they're young, to take time out and play with them. Just fifteen minutes twice a day is enough, just get their hearts racing and give them time to hunt and play.

Still, if your cat is young, it might just run around like nuts for a few years. My older cats did not really calm down that much until they were reaching their fourth birthdays. Sometimes it helps to leave treats in 'hidden' spots for them to find (as long as there is no threat of insect invasions), and to rotate their toys so there is always something new to play with. I use 'Cosmic Catnip" and rub some on their toys, they seem to like it.

Hope those ideas might help. And yes, if your male kitty isn't fixed, it's a good idea to get that done ASAP. Once they start maturing they start spraying, and once they start it's hard to get them to stop. Just be patient, he should start chilling out as he gets older, in the mean time, just make sure there are no priceless breakables on place he might leap on to in one of his crazy flights around the house, hehe.