Sorry no help here i'm at the hurry up stage myself LOL
There seems to be a common assumption that sex for you is over quickly...So I will ask the obvious question - how long is it before he *******? If it is short then he needs to ****** more often so it doesn't happen as quickly (shucks :-) )...
Suggestion for this situation: Tell him you want to try something...and either get a toy yourself or get him to go with you to an adult store and find a toy together (you might pay attention to what he looks at as well for future)...and then have him use the toy on you with the rule he can't enter you until you ******...
Make SURE he gets YOU off first. Then it probably wont matter as much. :-)
Option 2: Have him do something very SENSUAL to you.
Sorry, I try to just *** super fast the rare times I have sex with the wife, she said some messed up things not long ago and now I just try to get it over with.
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just make him stop when he feels it coming, tell him to pull out before and have him pleasure you with out him receiving pleasure aswell, then as he starts to calm down and isnt as exciting, go at it again, this works really well, and most times the girl can experience multiple orgams, aswell talk to him about using a toy, most men love to see a women pleasure herself, it shouldnt insult him, all he wants is to make for you to feel as good as he does when you guys get intimate... also, tell him to really thinkhard about what he is actually doing, and to not let his mind run off with the moment... this can usually help a guy last longer...all in all, communication is key!
basically it just a mental thing, you just have to train his subconscious so that it doesn't go off so soon. I had the same problem i lasted about 30 minutes and now i last about 2 to 2 and a half hours so yea it works.
No - PERFECT answer:
Have him wear a condom when he masturbates. YES -- MAKE him **********. Then - MAKE him wear a condom when he is with you.
BUT - I personally think the bigger issue you have here is NOT getting off with the hubby ... fix that one pronto girlie ....
Once you learn to ****** with a partner *OMG sex happens*
Could it be that you are just capable of lasting longer than the men you have known. Have you considered extending your foreplay and maybe using a toy, such as a *****, on yourself while holding back from touching your husbands penis for a while before the two of you begin. This could bring you closer to your climax while not getting your husband excited or bringing him closer to his, then you could climax together.