How can I get Over this Embarrassment?

about 3 months ago, me and my boyfriend were out in a pub, and i found him flirting with my best friend. Ofcourse they denied it, their excuse was that my boyfriend at the time was settin my best friend up with his friend.. but she had a boyfriend. they spent weeks trying to re-assure me that nothing happened, but my best friend leaves one guy for another. thats how she is. So the fact that she already had a boyfriend wouldn't have stopped her.
But they sort of humiliated me. made me feel guilty. my boyfriend ended our relationship because of the "accusations".
But two days ago.. i spoke to my best friends boyfriend. he revealed that they she had split up with him to go off with my ex...
hope that makes sense. so basically they put me through a load of shit just to prove me right.
if you want anymore details or there is something you don't understand.. then please mail and ask. I just want to know what to make of all this. i could do with a good chat. please help.

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be glad you got rid of him
never trust her ever again
go forward and find a great guy and rub it in

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trixiegirl	Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 3:53PM You have nothing to be embarrased about. Celebrate being free of both of them. You deserve better friends. Remember that when they break up, and both come crawling to you for comfort- because they will!! Rated: +2Vote for this!
everton13	Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 8:46AM I agree with Intruderlvr Rated: +1Vote for this!
CrystalClear1	Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 8:53AM Those rats did you a favor. You can email me and I will share a story of mine that will help I hope . You are to good for both of them I hope you find better love. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Undertone	Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 9:41AM They deserve each other, no-good backstabbing gutter slime. YOU should not be embarrassed, they ought to be ashamed, but that would entail having Character!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
mak3damnsur3	Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 9:54AM whatever you do, never be tempted to get back with him. sooner or later they always come crawling back, out of guilt or whatever. never believe a word either of them say again. you're better than them :] Rated: +1Vote for this!
ShadowofDoubt	Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 11:00AM umm, what part were u embarrassed over?? the fact that your ex-bf and (hopefully ex-)best friend are both lying sh*theads?? neither deserve a second thought, go on ur merry way, be happy, dignified....most likely u'll have the last laugh anyways....i don't see them being happy long term. :) Rated: +1Vote for this!
TheGoldenBear	Posted Sep 20th, 2009 at 11:26AM One way or the other, you were proven right. Let them go and move on. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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