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Kidd12 Kidd12 16-17, F 16 Answers Nov 6, 2012 in Intimacy

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Help her to know it was not her fault. Rape can happen to anyone at any time. Help her to get outside help too like counseling as soon as possible. If she is on EP I am here to help too. I have been through it and know how to heal the pain.

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Make sure she has reported it to the police and has gone for an exam for proof if it's needed. Make sure she knows you are there for her. Don't push her to talk about it but let her know that if she wants or needs to talk, you will listen. You could get some good information on places she can get help, therapy, couselling etc and have it ready for when she's ready for it. And don't let her think in any way possible that it was her fault, that she should have done this or not done that. Just be her friend.

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You can only love her and be there for her. She will be very moody and at times not make any sense but just be her friend and just let her feel the emotions. Try to get her to someone that she can talk with and get help to start healing. This takes time but just be there for her and she will appreciate it more than you know. God bless you and her. Your a great friend.

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Try and get her to go to a doctor. Besides, that you can only be supportive and loving.

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contact the police..

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she wont! i asked her too and she refuses!

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Nvm she caved! thank god!

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my close friend who lives next door to her is with her, she'lll be okay with her.

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Find and beat the *** of the rapist then call the police and say he "fell".

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Well, he fell onto my boots...They're steel toe.

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Do her parents know?

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no, she made a mistake and met him off the internet.. she doesn't know his last name and he knows where she lives... i'm so scared for her...

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Tell her parents, they will need to know. Perhaps talk to her to convince her to tell her parents first though. And if he knows where she lives then definitely contact the police.

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yeah she is right now and they will know, they have to if she's calling them

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thats a very hard question ,be there for her

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Did u take her to hospital for a Rape work up,were the police called,was she additionally hurt? FOr a couple of days she might need a tranquilizer. Stay with her as long as u can,keep her warm and comfortable Don't

let her shower till the work up is complete. Call around for a rape recovery group and take her to it. Keep her warm and comfortable and don't let her be alone. Call her job for her and get time off. Tell them it must be kept confidential. Since it could be u next you should call the coppers anyway

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Tell the police, they can do a rape kit and most likely catch the guy. Just hold her and let her cry or talk or whatever she needs to do.

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if she can go to the doctor and get a wellness exam, that can take care of anything the person did to physically harm her, and if it's before two days after it happened doctors can get a DNA sample of the guy and track him down through that. maybe even able to stop him from doing it to someone else. (as for your friend, just like everybody on here said, just be there for her and she will talk about it when she's ready.)

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Assuming the parents know and the authorities have already been contacted, I don't really know. I haven't had any firsthand experience with anything like that.

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