How can I help in getting my boyfriend's 4 daughters (ages 24, 31, 33 and 42) to accept me and my 21 year old daughter?
People have told me; "Wait until they get older." Well, how much older? They are now 24, 31, 33 and 42 and STILL have not accepted me, nor my 21 year old daughter who is a sweetheart and has done nothing wrong. She's in grad school and very involved with musical theater and working with the special needs population. "The daughter's" lives have been a real struggle, due to their Mom's dysfunctions.The only answer I can come up with is jealousy. Sad because our 3 year old relationship has been in limbo since his four daughters have shunned my daughter and I. At this rate, I'm guessing it won't be until I'm in the grave and we'll have a marriage in heaven! Any input would be much appreciated. Thank you and the best of luck.