Let the girl talk - they go on for hours and hours
Just a bit of male advise
Ask questions and seem engaged. Dont talk about yourself too much. Pretend your a good listener and your interested, make eye contact and make your eyes big if the person speaking makes an emotional statement and appear to be non judgemental
Don't try too hard, let it flow... as they say..
You would have to give me more info for auntie Donna to help.
find conversation and people that interest you...