follow your heart and let it show the way.
You really can't all I know to do is just get busy and try like heck to keep your mind pre-occupied with anything other than this person! But as I am writing this I have to tell you the truth I am currently struggling with this myself and it's terrible it's so tough because I have the knowledge I just can't seem to get un-stuck! Hopefully that made some sense to u?
time is the only chance