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How can i make my long distance relationship work?

he lives about three hours away, i know people have loves who live further but with school i cant go visit him that often. Plus he will soon be going uni which might take him further away and i have 2 more years of school and then uni. if your wondring he is nearly 4 years older then be but we love each other.
So please help
Posted 4 months ago
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You need to ask yourself a couple things. What if he meets someone while he is gone? Would you still love him after that? What if you meet someone? What if you meet someone who is local and cute and sweet and everything you wanted your boyfriend to be? Would you love him through that? If you can honestly- HONESTLY. If you would still love him through that, then hang on.

If you want it to work and the fates are on your side, then it will work out.

You are young. I suggest you do yourself a favor and experience being single. Experience things how a teenager is supposed to experience them. If you don't, you will always wish you had.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 12:15PM
I'm not sure it will work, but whenever you get the chance (and vice versa) you guys should try to share as many moments of your lives as possible. Like send him random pics of what you're doing, where you're going, videos--whatever, just to try and include him in your life more even though you guys are apart.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 12:35PM
Use a web cam. Communicate daily.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 2:18PM
By not making it work.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 3:03PM
Communication has to become a priority. Whenever you get a chance call, email, or whatever you have to do to stay connected. Even if you have to break out the old pen and paper and write through snail mail. When you communicate be very open and honest about how you feel and your fears. Your boyfriend will most likely reassure you that no distance will break you apart. I know all about long distance relationships, I was in one for two years with someone I began taking to online and it was the hardest thing to keep together, but we knew we wanted to be together. It took alot of patience and trust, and now we have been together for almost five years. It will work if both of you really want it to.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 3:13PM
Honey, this isn't going to work and it shouldn't at your age. Maintain contact with him, but do not limit yourself. You need to be meeting lots of people and making friends of both genders. So does he. I'm not belittling your love for each other, but time and distance do not lend themselves to romantic involvement.
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