I carry a couple of loves I've had that were deep connections and probably will to my grave.
Life happened. My point is, I think it's okay to care the good parts of a lost love. Just don't carry around the bad ****!
You'll always carry it with you, at least to some degree.Like me with the love for my redheads, about 70 lbs and 10 years apart,lol.Wish I had either/both!
I left redhead #1 for my wife.Redhead #2 moved several times, farther and farther away.Though the last 5 years of our relationship was a long distance affair, she broke it off when she wouldn't give me her newest address.She's the one I miss the most...
Yes, it is possible. But the memories will always remain....and there's nothing wrong with that. Stop looking back and start looking forward. The past will only prevent you from finding the next opportunity....the next love of your life. :)
Hurt is a feeling....based solely in the past. The future doesn't hurt you....think about it.
And the one you'll never get over? If that's the case...you're DONE!
You're mourning. You WILL get over it. Just take your time to heal.
I'm trying my best here aswell
Time will erase it, just let time do it's thing.
It will change.
Love, real love, is always a piece of you. Real love changes you, defines you and is a part of your landscape...
Like any loss, it hurts... If it was love, the vibrant color will come out in time.