You may never out grow your shyness but someone special will come your way and recognize you and your shyness as a special trait.. boldness can be overwhelming..
nooooo, dont even START using alcohol for that! maybe you're trying to talk to the wrong guys. In a social situation, do you talk to any guys? maybe you could practice with someone? if you like a guy, ,you probably know what they're into. Start with a question, that always works!
Add me n.I'll tell you how to over come that