How can i pretend i don't have feelings for him?

Asked By: vikia 13-15, F 12 months ago

Even better how can i get over him and stay away, he is constantly on my mind.

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Posted by ionlywishyouknew 1 Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:03AM

Smile. It makes them think you are over them and moving onto better and brighter things. Seeing you so happy will hurt them because they think you don't care. Talk to other guys. Slowly you will get over him and honestly it may take time,but he will gradually fill your thoughts less and less until someone new replaces them. The worst will be over soon.

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Reply by vikia Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:05AM

Thank you :) I think i won't get over him that simple through smiling, but what you've written helps :)
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Reply by bearsgirl80 Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:07AM

How do u smile when your world is crashing down? It takes a lot of courage and strength, but we can do it!!! Vikia, I wish u happiness. Joy will find you when you least expect it!!
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Posted by FistOfLove Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:03AM

I've been doing it for 3 years, you just learn to internalize it all.

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Posted by SaintMaj Jun 22nd, 2012 at 1:58AM

put some cardboard box over your head

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Reply by vikia Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:02AM

Does that actually work?
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Reply by faith11579 Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:04AM

Why would someone put a box over their head its like a scared hobo or boxman
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Posted by ruddlindsey Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:52AM

There is no pretending, when you have feelings for someone. You can not control that. It something that can not be controlled, you will just have to deal with it the best you can, and try not to let it control you.

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Reply by vikia Jun 22nd, 2012 at 3:01AM

I want to give him the impression i don't have feelings for him but i do. :)
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Posted by DesignXrejected Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:06AM

By actually not have any feelings for him, i don't see why its so hard to forget and move on..... why not picture it as a page in a magazine, after the new one comes out there's no need for the old one. its worn out and probably has a coffee stain on it... Point being you have a new magazine enjoy it! Sorry if i'm coming of as rude i don't mean it :)

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Reply by vikia Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:09AM

I do have feelings for him, and their pretty deep. But i have no understanding of the magazine part you've written?
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Reply by DesignXrejected Jun 22nd, 2012 at 2:17AM

Yup of course you have feelings for him, otherwise you wouldn't have asked the question. You asked how to "pretend" even if you act like you don't have feelings for him they'll still be there. I believe it you pretend long enough you'll eventually start to lose feelings.....and ohh don't worry about that.
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