How can I say "No" tactfully to cousins that told me they are coming over on Thanksgiving when they were not invited?
I don't like being with them, and I find it very rude that they would just want to come over to get free food and drinks so they don't have to cook. Wow, some people are really shocking. I would never do that to someone. My Dad just died and we need time to grieve and remember the memories, and they have been rude to us in the past.