You know what is important to him....<br />
Take an irreversible step in that direction...<br />
Do something that is solely for him...move out of your house and into his area, have a tattoo of his name on your face, buy him a book, play a request on the radio...<br />
Throw a party for 50 people to make a declaration of love in public...with no expectation, request for a payback..<br />
Just do it!
Listen to him....become friends with him....do little things for him.....write him lil love notes....put bthem in his coat pocket to find later/in his sarnie's box for when he's working he'll find....make him romantic music mix tapes.....<br />
That kinda thing.....the details of life, really.....<br />
My ex one time while we were being intimate took a pen and drew a ring on each of our fingers, pretty clear statement there. Then again notice how I said ex. lol Still it seemed a good way to show that intention, issues not withstanding.
take im to the jewelry store.......& hover round the engagement rings ;-)