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I have liked her for a while but she dosent like me. I am not her type so I have been trying to make these feelings go away as to not destroy this friendship. She is possibly the best friend I have ever had and If I cant make these feelings go away then I may have to cut all ties with her right here and now. Can someone give me an answer please? I just dont know what to do its been driving me up a wall for a good 2 or 3 years now. EDIT: The only solution I can think that will work is to just cut all ties with her but I would realy like to Avoid this... suggestions?
Krie Krie 22-25, M 3 Answers Mar 5, 2011

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You have to decide weather you want them in your life or not first...<br />
If you think you can live without seeing that person again...<br />
That is a hard choice to make...because of all your feelings...what might seem good now may not be good later..<br />
Go slow...out weight everything first...then think hard about it...once you make a choice you have to stand by it..<br />
I hope it helped...<br />
Good luck!

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its very difficult to love your best friend .. <br />
at some point it will come to an end though .. <br />
you need to ask yourself if her friendship is more important to you than anybody else's and the answer will lead you (i hope) to a good decision ..<br />
one thing i can tell you from experience, never tell / or even hint your feeling for her .. it will be like telling her a straight "I L U" and it will be the end something priceless in your life ..<br />
love is overrated i think .. friendships are not ..<br />
good luck

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I agree with you, that is exactly how I feel which is why I dont date and why I dont want to so much as hint that I have these feelings for her. But these feelings I have for her are litteraly eating me up inside. I don't know how much more I can take. <br />Which is why im trying to find a way to magicaly make these feelings for her go away so I can keep my best friend.

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Date other girls until you find another special one. I know it seems like there is no way anyone is gonna top her but you be might be surprised.<br />
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EDIT: Then talk to her and tell her how you feel. When this happened to me, it was hard because he was my best friend and I didn't wanna hurt him but we kept being good friends for a long time. I didn't leave him, especially because of how he felt for me. If you have a already talked to her and it is still driving you crazy, then take a break. You're wasting time.

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The thing is, I dont want to date anyone. I dont even want to fall in love with anyone. I just want to live my life with minimal interuption.<br /><br /><br />EDIT: She is one of the only people I have in my life that I consider a friend. I am too afraid to even bring this back up now that high school is long gone. What it all boils down to is that im selfish and I do not want to get hurt again. I also dont want things between me and her to be aqward because of my stupid feelings. I have tried not thinking about her but I just end up thinking about her in the end. even when im thinking about something ealse I just randomly think about her. If there was just some way so simply make these feelings go away then maybe I can continue being friends with her. Which is what I want.

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