How can I trust my husband from not using drugs. Who should I believe? I dont want him to go to AAA.
He was 5 years off drugs and he used to go everyday to meetings and he stopped them 3 months before we met. He was perfectly fine no drugs, very healthy etc. and after 2 years of relationship we got married ( 6 months ago) but 1 month ago he got a huge project ( he is a contractor) and he said he got very stressed that he tried once and he felt so guilty and he stopped right away and told me next morning. I of course felt terrible, confused, mad, everything was a disaster but I decide I was on his side and I was going to trust him he wont do it again.now 3 days ago his mother invited us to her beach house and we spent the night there etc.since he finished that huge job he is being slow he is always sleepy.and the mother noticed that.Now I got a called from her telling me she is 110 % sure He is using drugs again and I asked him and he said nO!was just that one time and thats it. / she also said she found a cap of a needle on the restroom but I know that was from a old needle I trashed.