How can men go without closure?

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The only closure men need is a door.

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BlasphemousAngel	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 7:54PM Every person regardless of gender needs closure to move on. Sometimes for me, being a male, is just the acceptance that it's over, we're not in love, let's move on now. Sometimes I need to hear from the person, Why? And sometimes I need the chance to say goodbye. Rated: +3Vote for this!
bekkyboo	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 9:56PM Assume you mean at the ending of a relationship. Well Im no expert but men are different to us women-its just the way their brains function. Think they fall in love quicker (it might be a fact I read somewhere)- and out too. Think there minds are working logically-"its over-cause I said it is-now I will move on". But us women are like-"oh, but we had FUN together, Thought he loved me, he was so romantic/said nice things/made me feel good etc"...do you know what I mean. Men=logical Women=emotional Rated: +2Vote for this!
wiseowl	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 9:56PM Men want closure. They want it in a different way.Women want to go over everything with fine tooth comb. Men, not so much. actually, not all women need a big finale. Gone is gone to a lot of people. Rated: +2Vote for this!
underconstruction	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 9:55PM The only thing that needs closure is their zipper. Rated: +2Vote for this!
2nice	Posted May 29th, 2009 at 8:21AM It's often not worth the effort. Especially in a one sided relationship where closure isn't attainable. However, some guys may just want to move on and avoid being confronted with guilt... really, there are a lot of reasons and they aren't exclusive to guys. Most guys can let stuff go easier than women though. Unless the TV remote control is at stake or his seasons tickets...lol Just the way we're wired. Rated: +1Vote for this!
aileengein	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 7:12PM No concience?? That's my best guess...The one's I've been with didn't have an ounce!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
axeman66	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 7:22PM they don't. men have different definitions of closure than women. Rated: +1Vote for this!
edenray	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 7:52PM not all but some men are just cold emotionally and it's not something they need to move on. Rated: +1Vote for this!
LizardKing	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 7:38PM It goes both ways, I know that I need closure. Rated: +1Vote for this!
southernheat	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 8:56PM seems some men need lots of closure also but then again more must not! Rated: +1Vote for this!
RainbowsandAngels	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 9:57PM Maybe it was already over for them before they actully moved on. Rated: +1Vote for this!
wholovesme	Posted May 28th, 2009 at 10:36PM i think it's cause they have bad memories..lol....they don't remember every detail of the relationship...so even though they may have been in love passionately at the time....fifteen years from now...they probably would say yea i loved her but won't remember why...unless its the kinda love that last forever..... Rated: +1Vote for this!

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