How can someone love someone who hurt him and cant hate him?

Because their feelings are very deep. The bad or hurtful parts are forgiven. And the relationship means more than the pain. Love & time heals all. Although the scars may never heal.

I'm not sure I understand the question but My lil Bro and I had a disagreement and didn't talk for months. Didn't mean I didn't love him anymore and if he'd have been in trouble, I'd have been right there with bail, or to make a stand with him.

If it was a male/female thing, my ex g/f hurt me to the bone numerous times. But if she needed help, I'd be there at any expense. Whether it meant I had to leave another girl, a job, or whatever.

I live and die for those I love.

Because there are people (very few) who their heart is so pure that they cant hate.

and, they proberly suspect or know that the person that hurts them has some kind of problem / addiction or other that either they are not willing to get help on or that there is no help for.

because pain doesn't automatically negate love.

I don't know but I've done it too.

Because they justify the hurt in their minds. Maybe they blame themselves a little bit.
Ive done it before too.

Because no matter how bad anyone hurts you, if you have a heart, you're always gonna care some

it's very easy to still love someone that hurt you. but, it's extremely hard to hate someone that hurt you if you love them. i was hurt a few months ago very badly by someone i truly love. and, i tried to hate him, but i couldn't. so, we moved on past the hurt and, are trying to rebuild our lives together.

I wish I knew. Although if you had hatred it would be a double hurt. One who hates is owned by the one hated, but it doesn't usually hurt the hated one at all.
So, although you can't hate, you can set boundaries and not let them back in to hurt you again. It probably helps to have a good support system, like this Web site to bounce thoughts off of. Best wishes, you are in my prayers today.

I'm not sure, by your question, the kind of pain that was caused....but, in general....you can still love someone who has hurt you....and there is a condition where you are in love with the person that is abusing you.....it's not a healthy condition, however.

Hate is a very strong word...I have been abused by my husband, and yet I can still say that I don't hate him....I am not in love with him anymore, but I don't hate him.

Sometimes the more someone rejects me or hurts me the more my heart longs for that person to love me and accept me. It is like that with my husband and myself. After all the **** he has done to me I can't honestly say I hate him. In my heart I still feel I love him nomatter how sick that sounds. Although alot of that could be mental lol