Friends with benefits is that.. a consenting sexual relationship between two adults. Dont interpret it for anything more then that. Any relationship that starts on lies or in bad circumstances is bound to fail and crumble. Dont mistake the feelings you have for this person as something more. It isnt. Just move on with your life and leave that drama behind.
This dude wants his cake and eat it too and you're feeding it to him with the "benifits". Send this guy home to his other g/f toot suite.
Stay away from drugs.
This is what amazes me, suppose he left his g-friend for you, what makes you think you would be immune to the same treatment the last g-friend got. And knowing that, would you be able to trust him.
These are the insane problems you create when you practice immorality. Suck it up....
In other words. Make your bed and lie in it.
Please there is no fun in being someones sloppy seconds no matter how sweetly the persons being to you!!
Ummm... I don't really get it... sounds like a pretty crazy situation.<br />
But I'm presuming he is telling you the truth. He's confused, and I am guessing that you are too.
I would keep to your end of the bargain.<br />
Its his problem if he developed 'feelings' for you.<br />
A friend with benefits is just a business transaction.<br />
No offence, but its like going to see a hooker but not paying.
Hey, if he dumps you, will you be my friend with benefits, I promise I wont get feelings for you.
he's playin you both.......probably others too