Didn't you're mother teach you, you should share or give away your unwanted toys? same thing!
I know its hard to get over but we all have failed relationships. I'm sure you'll find someone much better and far more deserving of someone as wonderful as you! Untill that time, if and when you think of him, remember he is a jerk. You won't find someone (and shouldn't pursue anyone) until you've have your chance to grieve and move on.
you're so young, if you don't mind, how long is "a long time"?
Glad to listen. Sorry for your pain. First real love?
they do last a long time. Mine lasted over 20 years, but I was able to move on well before because I knew I would never be. That's what you must come to realize, it will never be...and so you must move on, you will move on.
I think you misunderstood, my pining lasted 20+ years and through a marriage.
There are still good guys. the thing is you have to love yourself first.
I DO understand the pain. Really the only thing to do is decide you are not going to be held hostage buy the memories of this person. Get up, paste a smile on if you must and face the world! Deciding to do it is the hard part. Once you do, it will become easier.
Try your hardest as school or work or whatever you do! focus on those things! focus on YOU, treat yourself like the queen you should be treated like! spoil yourself! you deserve it!
I was thinking, this seems to have been a romance that started when you were very young, which most always turn out bad for one reason or another. Sadly, few things are as immovable as a young girls heart when she is in love. You need to stop blaming yourself, which I suspect you are doing. Nothing you could have done would ahve fixed this or kept him. You need to work on your self esteem, you sound like a wonderful, committed and devoted person! Focus on your wonderful qualities and find someone who is actually worth of your great gifts! Emerse yourself in work, school or a hobby...or all three! It will help
lol... new era huh?! and a very Happy Christmas and New year to you! May you receive everything you need!
Psalms118:8 its better to trust in the Lord than to trust in man
Well... first stop being friends with him on any social networking sites. And don't go to places you know they will be at. If you do happen to encounter them just be polite, tell them something truthful,but kind,like "I hope you are happy together" or "I always wanted you to be happy". Then go on with life. Time for you to heal and move forward with life. Don't dwell over "what could have been" or "what should have been" it's not worth it.
You avoid seeing them until you feel better. And then you consider them both as a "jerk" and "a woman who looks like a man". Sounds like they aren't great anyway and not worth thinking about.
You cry sweetheart because you're unhappy. Be happy. Because he just ain't worth crying over. Cry in private, let out the tears, and then stand proud and dignified! And wait for the really nice person to come into your life.
You don't have the courage yet....but you will! Have you got family to talk to? Spend Christmas with a small child (your own little niece or nephew?) or spend a lot of time with a small child. They usually end up putting a real smile on our face!
Thats a hard thing to do even when we are over the other persons crap....
When we see them with someone else i think we automatically start judging and nit-picking every little thing we can see about the person..
When you feel like crying try finding something humorous about the situation...maybe its the hint of a mustache she has or the full blown man beard shes rocking...or that she walks like she has a set of testicles the size of a bulls scrotum...
Try that....but the honest best thing you can do is fight through the tears and be strong because it is going to make you a stronger person in the end as cliche as it sounds...
Good luck you will find a man worthy of having you and your heart
It is very hard to trust again and someone you cared about deeply done you wrong...
Not all men are bad....
none of us are perfect....i think thats where alot of the problem lays....not just with you but everyone...we are raised with the notion that we must find the PERFECT partner which we can not ever find....just the right one for us....
Keep your chin up
Lol i did see my ex with his new beeotch, and it was a man. I just smiled. Cause he means nadadamnthing to me. He threw his prissy hands up and said oh heyallll no. We got to move. . . That folks was the highlight. He's still holds hard feelings cause I whipped his *** like the beeotch he wanted to be in my own front yard when he decided to tell me he was testing out the other waters right after we decided to break up a couple weeks prior. So much for being friends with your exes. :)
Lol we were friends actually. Good friends we were together for over a year after a tradgic event in my life. At a certain point I say him down told him that I wanted to still be good friends but I wanted to see other people and he agreed cause that's all we were was good friends just shouldn't be in a relationship. No arguments or crazy things like that we were just great friends. Lmao after we called it off on mutual terms you think he would tell me in that time he was thinkin of testing waters or that he was a lil fruity but nope just cane over one day and told me he was dating a man. Automatic reflexes just came out and I whipped his ***. After that everything just went down hill. Couldn't be friends. Lol that's the only part that sucks is we lost a good friendship all the other things didn't matter.
You clearly aren't over him yet, the only way to cope is with time and if a new man comes into your life that will help you to totally get over him, like you said, he's a jerk.
no **** DUMB AZZ
I BEEN TRYING TO TELL U