How can you have a second chance with your ex if you don't go and get back with them?

LET IT GO ALREADY. EP and your real life friends are tired of you asking about this relationship. Meet someone else. If you bump into the ex 5 years from now and there's still a spark, that's your second chance.

Just the expression alone of "winning someone back" makes it so sad and desperate.
If they want to be with you, they will be with you.You can´t win anybody back.
Learn what you can from this relationship and........move on.

if it;s meant to be it will happen

A second chance isn't always an option for every relationship.

I have a friend who is just consumed by her ex...he never even loved her to begin with...and she couldn't or wouldn't see that...and it was just SO OBVIOUS to everyone else. It's just embarrassing. I just had to tell her yesterday that him and his girlfriend are getting married. She tells me all the time that he is calling her and all this...but I know he's not. Why does she feel she has to lie about this? She wanted so badly for a second chance, but it's never going to happen and she just ends up looking pathetic and desperate. Do you want to look pathetic and desperate? Let it go. Move on.

i so hear you. my exs contact me for sex. i had one not speak to me for a year and a half and then he smsed me for sex. if u still like them play it cool dont contact them till they contact you and if ur doing well for urself and acting lkkike it didnt effect you them for some reason ppl like that and it will attract them back to you.
but at the moment i do want this guy back lol GOOD LUCK xx

Your screen name is past is past. Well listen to that leave it in the past it is the past for a reason. To be blunt no **** is worth making a fool out of yourself.