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How can you join a dating site and stay positive ? There's so many time wasters and liars... any advice ?

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    sawdustforbrains - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by sawdustforbrains Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:48PM

    just specify what you want and dont on your profile. avoid the ones who ask you questions that clearly the answer is on your profile but just didnt look and avoid the ones that want to meet instantly or ask for your number after one message or give you theirs. im not saying message forever but there is no hurry

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  1. DiesSomnium - 31-35 years old

    Reply by DiesSomnium Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:51PM

    Ive taken a great effort to write a profile that shows im sincere and gives a general idea of who i am and what im looking for.. and yet i still get a dozen messages a day asking me questions that are clearly answered on my profile... thats actually the most annoying thing about these sites... seems everyone is either lazy or illiterate

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  2. sawdustforbrains - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by sawdustforbrains Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:53PM

    oh i know nobody can spell its so annoying. just block them, i hope its not POF your on, its full of loonballs.

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7 Answers to "How can you join a dating site and stay positive ? There's so many time wasters and liars... any advice ?"

  1. assyrianpride - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by assyrianpride Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:55PM

    Advice? Delete ur profile.

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  2. DiesSomnium - 31-35 years old

    Reply by DiesSomnium Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:04PM

    every day im tempted lol

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  3. hippnk - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by hippnk Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:49PM

    You have to learn how to spot the time wasters and the liars and the scam artists. One way to do this is to join a pay site. A site where both the mails and females pay.

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  4. MmmBabi - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by MmmBabi Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:49PM

    My only advice is to meet them fairly quickly for a cup of coffee or a drink, something very casual. If they're not up for that then move on.

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  5. DiesSomnium - 31-35 years old

    Reply by DiesSomnium Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:55PM

    the problem im having is im painfully shy.. and it takes me a while before i can feel comfortable around someone face to face.

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  6. ForShame - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by ForShame Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:55PM

    Try not being fat.

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  7. DiesSomnium - 31-35 years old

    Reply by DiesSomnium Jan 26th, 2013 at 1:05PM

    whats wrong with having 3 chins ?

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  8. Ions - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Ions Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:52PM

    You cant they are full of people who are trying to scam you or get a kick out of leading people on and them when you to meet say in your dreams minger and if the above had only happened once i could live with it but when it happens the majority of times you get the picture of the sick people who are on line

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  9. Fenally - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Fenally Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:48PM

    Don't take them seriously.

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  10. DiesSomnium - 31-35 years old

    Reply by DiesSomnium Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:49PM

    but its the ones that dont take it seriously that i refer to as time wasters lol

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  11. Fenally - 18-21 years old

    Reply by Fenally Jan 26th, 2013 at 12:51PM

    Well, if you take it seriously here then you're going to become negative. The only way you're going to stay positive is if you just don't take them seriously... that's my 2 cents worth anyway!

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