I don't think people who aren't depressed, have any idea what it feels like. I wish I didn't know what it's like. My life may have been very different.
Thats really sad, could you take them to the doctors with you?
I'm not sure if you can. My mom has major depression. I've yelled and screamed at her so much!!! I can only say I (we, her family) feel like crap about it. It's not good any way you look at it! So, on behalf of the yellers... sorry! We do try and understand (at least I know we do)... and it just becomes so overly frustrating... depression is horrible. I wish you lots of luck.
Again, sorry. It's hard enough when it is so acceptable (like here in the states). I know for me, who also deals with depression, I stay as far as away as possible from the meds. Meditation and exercise has helped some. My mom turned big time to the meds and ended up with 6 suicide attempts. I can only wish you light and love and hope that it eases up for you.