You have every right to be concerned but I have a 2.5 yr old son who is just like that when it comes to spilling things. I will be in the living room and he comes out from the kitchen, in tears saying mumma mumma pointing to the kitchen, Ill follow him and its all because he spilled his drink or knocked over his snack. I wont yell at him, I usually just tell him "its okay, just forget about it, there's no need to get upset over this" So some children are just like that, before I had my son I would've also thought the child had been abused if he or she acted this way. Also my son is in my care 24-7 since birth, not even a babysitter involved. I do hope everything turns out okay.
Have you ever seen somebody drop a beer at the bar... they cry too.<br />
Maybe he just was happy with his drink
I would keep an eye out, but I would not assume and draw to conclusions ba<x>sed on one incident. I would definatley keep your gaurd on though.
Your assumptions seem correct. The fact that he cried when he made a mistake is proof that the parent takes messes very seriously and probably punishes the child for such mistakes. However, the extent of the abuse cant be assumed. Until you see an actual reaction, you wont know if the father is physically or emotionally abusing the child, or to what extent. Some children can also be very emotional.