How can you tell if a guy is telling you you are good looking just to get what he wants?
How can you tell if he really means it or not. I've just had a number of guys tell me they think I'm attractive. One guy even said I should do a model audition they're having at the mall... I'm at a new school. I'm worried because at my old school no one used to say anything. My mom bought me new clothes because my dad got a better job... I think they just care because I look nicer.
I don't like the attention it's really scaring me. Hopefully someone can understand...
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Posted by 2011A Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:27PM
Congratulations at being beautiful and having the courage to deal with a new school! Atta girl! That's why you have to make boys your friends. Then, as you get to know them, you will realize who is real and who isn't. Have fun at your new school! Enjoy the attention. Perhaps this school environment is better. Be safe, though.
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Reply by Serenitree Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:29PM
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Posted by Tanuron Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:36PM
Up to you to control how you take it. Can appreciate the comment without letting it effecting you emotionally sort of. Would want people to think your attractive cause of your personality and not how you look anyway.
I never randomly said I think anyone is attractive. Usally wait until I get to know the person a bit, the longer the better, but that its just me anyway. Cause I find personalities to shape looks and attractiveness, but most people again are oposit.
They probably mean it tho, but dont let it shape how you view them anyway. If you dont let it shape you, they cant "get what they want". The more people know you, the more it means, so if you dont feel like they know you. It shouldent matter that much or let it matter. Its sad but true, keep compliments at a distance. Except again, if you feel like people really know you :).
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Posted by Jasec Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:28PM
Take your time to get to know them, and dont let them push you into something they want, but you dont...photoshoot is oke....if one of your parents can be present! Better save then sorry!
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Posted by Serenitree Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:26PM
Well, look at it this way; if they want something from you, they probably find you attractive. I am sorry this is scary to you.
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Posted by atadir Mar 27th, 2012 at 4:38PM
Sounds like you are hot and everybody wants you. So, that puts you in the driver's seat. Take your time, get to know the ones you like best, but don't let them rush you into anything. You are the one who is in control of the situation, you call the shots. Just try to be patient, considerate and respectful. Their feelings and their pride are on the line, try not to give anybody false hope.
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Posted by madasalizard Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:28PM
You will only really find out once you give him what he wants.
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Posted by MontiPora Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:26PM
At your age, that is ALL they want. Trust me on that, OK?
You may be good looking or a down right scag, I donno, but for the boys your age, it DOESN'T matter!
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Posted by 330GTC Mar 27th, 2012 at 3:26PM
I believe you just answered your own question.
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