Register

How can you tell if a guy only wants you for a quick bang or if he actually means what he says and likes you for you?

Is This A Good Question? (5)

Add an Answer to "How can you tell if a guy only wants you for a quick bang or if he actually means what he says and likes you for you?"

Send me an email when there are new answers to this question

11 Answers to "How can you tell if a guy only wants you for a quick bang or if he actually means what he says and likes you for you?"

  1. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 May 3rd, 2012 at 4:52PM

    maybe if they are good with talking, doesn't get impatient, ask you about you. Cares what you think, cares what you want... and is ok with it and talks politely about it... I'd say its a good bet that he likes you then.

    Like (4)

  2. hellfromabove - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by hellfromabove May 3rd, 2012 at 4:52PM

    He buys you dinner and makes you breakfast

    Like (3)

  3. Brategrev4 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Brategrev4 Apr 17th, 2013 at 12:17AM

    The same way you know a girl is sincere. Make them wait.

    Like (1)

  4. stephaniebis - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by stephaniebis Nov 2nd, 2012 at 10:52AM

    The law of universal frustration is, when a woman likes a guy and sleeps with him for love, AND (note the AnD) he is only after a quick bang, he takes off and leaves. If he cares for her, he (and maybe she) will want sex anyway.

    Take your time and find out.

    If he won't wait, he's after the big bang and I'm off after that.

    Like (1)

  5. hurleyalex18 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by hurleyalex18 Aug 19th, 2012 at 10:45PM

    you're not going to be able to tell - because if he really wants that quick bang, he will say whatever it takes (usually). I guess you're going to have to be willing to take that risk...

    Like (1)

  6. WMichaelL4504 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by WMichaelL4504 May 4th, 2012 at 2:35AM

    dont "bang" him until you think you can trust him and if he holds out then he obviously likes you

    Like (1)

  7. mrqdreamer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by mrqdreamer May 3rd, 2012 at 5:02PM

    best way to deal with that is not to agree to the "bang" right away .. as in the rest of life .. something that is too easy to get usually isn't worth the "getting"

    Like (1)

  8. brighterbyday - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by brighterbyday May 3rd, 2012 at 5:02PM

    You wait to have sex, if he waits that is a very good sign, that he likes you.

    Like (1)

  9. sharpTresHombre - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sharpTresHombre May 3rd, 2012 at 4:58PM

    amount of drinks bought

    Like (1)

  10. plungesponge - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by plungesponge May 3rd, 2012 at 4:55PM

    Send your best looking friend to meet him and see what he does.

    Like (1)

  11. elyay2001 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by elyay2001 May 3rd, 2012 at 4:53PM

    He tries and doesn't ask or seem to want sex up front.

    Like (1)

Ask A Question

Answers to questions are provided for entertainment purposes only. You should never use answers to questions provided here to replace professional advice, such as from a doctor or lawyer. This page is for providing answers to the question "How can you tell if a guy only wants you for a quick bang or if he actually means what he says and likes you for you?"