You can't. It's not the way he says it, the sincerity in his eyes or voice. None of that.<br />
Orinoca's correct - if he's honest in everything even when it's to his loss, then there's a fair chance he's an honest person. If he lies about anything, you can never be sure except through actions over a long period of time.<br />
Well how do you know if a woman is telling the truth when she says she is in deep love with you?<br />
To me people are people, just because men and women interpret each other differently doesn't mean you can generalize one sex to be different than the other when it comes to character. Men are often generalized as being liars. I don't subscribe to this idea. Men just get caught more often in their lies. Women generally are better at it.<br />
I am an honest man. I often am mistrusted without reason by women because "all men are liars" and often I have to prove I'm honest. Quite frankly I'm a little tired of it.<br />
I guess if you're asking this question, you have doubts. Are these doubts ba<x>sed on things he's done or said that question his honesty? How long have you known him? And has he gotten to know you well? When these claims are made when you don't know each other very well how is it that he knows? Not saying that it's not possible. Sometimes you just know.<br />
If he hasn't given you any reason to doubt him, why don't you give him the benefit of the doubt. If there never have been trust issues in your relationship before, then why question now?
Actions always speak louder.....<br />
If he is doing things for you and doing it willingly and cause he wants it to be better for you then he might be telling the truth....
By what he does, not by what he says..
a man shows his loves by his actions. not his eyes or if you feel he is a sincere man. <br />
actions speak louder then words.
You look at the totality of actions over time. Has he done his best in the various situations you and he have been involved in? Has he been there for you?
well , in my opinion when a man is telling a woman that he is in deep love with her, he is trying to test on how easy the woman can be convinced or moved by the statement... I believe that when a man truly loves a woman it can be shown more in action than in words or speech...<br />
However, with the exception that when a man and woman is living together as husband and wife for quite a long , long time already , it is more possible and believable when a man will whisper to the wifes ear , that he is still deeply in love with her though the years have passed though they already have children's or grandsons or granddaughters around... that is how deep a mans love to a woman, the years that they have spend together for better or worst... but is it also possible for a woman to tell a man she is deeply in love with him? can we say that she is also deeply in love with the man?<br />
In my own point of view , even if the man and woman have been friends for quite a long time they still have to analyze if that kind of love is really deep and that they are willing to make sacrifices for the kind of love that will last and end up in the altar or marriage?......
Tell him you think you have Genital Herpes and see how he reacts!
It's not so much as what he says...pay more close attention to what he does everyday that shows you he's deeply in love with you. You can just feel it by looking in his eyes. When he's not with you, you can still feel his presense.
It's probably the truth at that moment =)<br />
There are books on reading body language if you really want to know the truth. I think some people just like to believe. The truth may hurt you.
Is he saying with conviction? Is he close to you and looking into your eyes?<br />
I agree that if he isn't always truthful with you on other things then I would wonder also if he was telling the truth.
When you can easily find EVIDENCE that he's the kind of guy that says what he means, and means what he says.<br />
I mean, it has to be evidence, ti can't be just something you merely imagine.