By the simple questioning
They are never spontaneous; every response and gesture is measured and visible. Because they can't be spontaneous because they are suppressing their emotions, they are also predictible. While they are talking, you can even think, "next her eyebrows will raise in pretend shock", or "now she is gonna smile, and lean forward towards me". <br />
People say more with body language than they ever could with words. Learn to comprehend non-verbal responses (like salespeople are trained to do) and the jig is up.
I can read people really well. I am very intuitive. Often, it isn't what they say or how they say it, it is the gestures and their body language that give out the clues, eyes, arms crossed. You can tell if they are listening and by their short answers. Working with investigative detectives, parol board and police officers in the past trained me to be quite guarded with people.
Time unravels all mysteries.
No one can read another humans mind. Someone might be depressed, leading you to think they hate you, when they love you but are incapapable of "looking happy" for reasons unrelated to you. Get over yourself.
I guess when theyre nowhere to be found when u really need them
well, I think the way, person pays attention to your words. Moreover, the way, the person treat you & the way he/she takes you & your things, your opinions.Sometimes, its raelly hard to distinct b/w real or fake person, but through your extra sixth sense ability, you can smell somthng fishy in his/her nature.
Why should they pretend?
my husband calls it his "weirdar", u know every alarm in ur body goes "off"
i'm with absolved in this too.... just by how they answer you, the way their ex<x>pression goes.... if your heart tells you something, be sure to listen to it.