Any time when a person sacrifices comfort for another is obvious proof of caring.
There are no ice picks sticking out of her back.
He treats her with genuine respect
I realize I really cared about my GF when I found myself worrying about her. I worry about her safety when she is on a business trip, I worry about her not eating enough, It is like I want to take care of her. Never have I ever felt that way about a woman until now.
He listens. He asks her opinion. He shows affection. He shows up.
well... forget words - and small 'deeds' his actions speak to his true feelings...
a guy can say 'i love you'... he can buy a rose, but what does that mean when he blows you off for a night out with his mates? or won't hold open a door? or risk looking like a fool for you - when he doesn't have a glow in his eyes when he sees you, or doesn't hold you close (with feeling - not lust)... walk away... :-)
LoL.. dear - thank you! .. you're so sweet - I am a hopeless romantic - but more.. I believe in authenticity - and that there's no substitute for it. Believe in yourself - and put out that you deserve the best - and that's what the universe will send your way.. Just be patient ;-) (you rock! remember that)...
He wouldn't engage him emotionally with another girl by any means...That's how men care. No man is as perfect as BA indicates, specially me...
They put her first, know her and anticipate her needs & wants before she asks. They are attentive, they listen, they compliement. They are patient, and forgiving. They surprise her with unexpected little giifts for no occasion or reason at all (roses, breakfast in bed, dishes/laundry done, house cleaned, offer to watch the kids to give her a day of fredom, take her out for no occasion, etc.), and they do it without wanting or expecting ANYTHING (incl. s**) in return. She is the first thing he brings up in conversation; before the job or anything else, and he has a photo always with him in his wallet, always ready to show. Also, watch how he looks at her. If he really cares, no words need to be spoken :)
This would be awesome!
and how I will treat my future g/f and wife :)
Thanks Hun for choosing mine 'Best Answer' :)
He never assumes it'll be the end. There's nothing final is his conversation.
he doesn't try to show her off
when he is attentive with her and tries to please her, cares for her approval, opinion.
I would add to obroin - He smiles at her in public. This is a big thing for women; to know their man is happy to be seen in public with her.
When he does all the little things, regardless if you have a spat. Not wanting anything in return. :)
it dosent mater unless the woman appreciates it