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im mean guys act like there scared to talk to me....i got told they think i look like im stuck up??? i dont get it....
southernstar1987 southernstar1987 22-25, F 13 Answers Dec 20, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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Men fear failure... So it takes a lot of courage to make the first move. I think women should start by 'offering their beauty'. A man is strength at his core, and a woman is beauty. Both of those things feed off of the other. When a woman offers her beauty to a man he has the option to use his strength to accept that beauty.. this is not so literal as wear make up and mini skirts or go to the gym and flex... It can be so much as a woman flashing a smile at a man across the room and the man responding by coming over and saying hello. I don't ever like to make the first move, but I try to 'offer my beauty' to compel a man to make that move.

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try doing nothing but smiling at a guy. It will give him confidence to make the moves you want him to make.

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Nah.. they are just lazy or effeminate. A man's man likes the hunt.

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Or bored with the prey.

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Unfortunately...

real men are becoming more & more rare

but there ARE a few of us left :)

...please drop your panties dear, I need a snack ;p>

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lol

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well, they're "judging the book by its cover". Saw your pic...you have a good looks, no problem with that..beautiful eyes, actually...so perhaps, try to have a pleasant, fun look...with smiles!

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:)

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Its hard to see how you come across without seeing you...

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????

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Well... you are stuck inside your body, so you can't see how you look to others. And I can't see how you are around others to say my impression of you. Maybe you can ask others what they think when they see you, so then you can understand why people aren't approaching you. Maybe you don't seem friendly...

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i come off shy at first...but i see your point

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are you actually shy? I am... and I'm trying to get over it...

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i am at first but im really bubbly

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awesome! May I ask what makes you shy? Do you act shy, or are you actually nervous? I'm curious :)

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i guess a little of both for a min.. but i get over it and start talking

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got ya

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:)

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You don't look stuck up and maybe your always makingthe first move because of the guys you pick, meaning its not your fault.

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ive dated alot of diffrent guys...but the same with most i "picked them up"

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it's the curse of beauty sweety, we all have to deal with being intimidating

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thats what ive been told but it sucks:(

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Look at your avatar? Cross look. High cheeks and pointed chin don't work well with a cross look. You get a natural upset appearance. Sales is all about smiles and appearing in a good mood.

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thanks i guess lol

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Keep smiling and it will all change. You have a good look that will attract men when they see you smiling.

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You sound confident and you're attractive; that scares a lot of men.

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im very confident....i can see that ..ive heard this before

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guys are intimidated by your beauty

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and you will get best answer because that's what women want to hear.

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ive heard that...but why be scared to talk...

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lol

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Because of the fear of rejection. Some guys don't handle rejection all that well. Some women can be total biotches when it comes to rejecting a man's advances.

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