The fantasy of "she's playing hard to get" is enticing, and far better than "I'm a fvcking loser".
I totally agree !!!
Because some women give the impression that they like to be chased, and men are told that persistence pays off
Some men aren't skilled in reading social cues, so they aren't aware that they are being stalky creepers. Have you tried to tell this person (in a direct manner) that they are bothering you, and to go away?
The problem is that many, many women say no when they mean yes, and that spoils it for the uptight ones who really mean no. How the hell are we suppose to tell the difference? Women want and need us to be forceful, manly men, but they reserve the right to complain about that same quality. It's maddening!
Read my answer again. We men get mixed signals.. there's just no way that we can tell. Try to be firm, professional and consistent.. that's realistically the best you can do.
All men are perverts. Some are just better at managing it.
Uhhh. I am not a pervert.
I like to present the 3 tiered approach. Prevert: the amateur. Pervert: Run of the mill. Provert: The professional.
Not using brain, just their testicles.
attention is better than NO attention.... they also think that if they are persistent enough, they will wear you down and eventually get you 'on the hook'. A lot get off on trying to shock you.. the best thing to do is ignore them<br />
If someone is harassing you online, block them and report them to site admin- any threats, report to Police. If it is in real life, report them immediately to the police and keep written details of the harassment for evidence.
I think that it has a little to do with the fact that they're perverted in the first place. Anyone who is whacked in the head isn't really thinking clearly anyway...
WHOA! Good luck with THAT one! Why are you still there?
Well, I can't tell you how to live... But the choices you make are your own, even if the choices are going along with other people's wishes.
I could guess that all they see are 2 things, and all they think about is 1 thing. I myself am not one of these guys, but they are pretty common these days.
no means yes don't it....oO
Because some just don't take hints and must be told & if on EP then blocked.
Because you assume they use their brains, do not give hints, get a court order.
I hear you. I befriended a neighbor because I merely felt sorry for him. He's an alcoholic. But brags on all the stuff he does for others (which is nothing) He began hitting on me and I told him to stop. He kept it up til I told him I would contact our police department and have them issue a breathalyzer every time he gets in his vehicle. He still phones me. I just hang up.