I have the same problem. ¢:
Hmmm....so all is going according to my plan......
It's a gift... Now where did I put that drill?
Because you have a "Vacancy" sign posted on your forehead?
You are allowing them power over your thoughts and emotions. If you find someone in your head that you do not want in there. Mentally tell them to get out!!! and then go find something to keep your mind active in a happy positive way. Exercise, create, play or listen to music. Good luck because it is a learned trick.
because U let them LOL
Are they perhaps toying with your vulnerable mind so as to feel a sense of their own personal power in being able to influence or annoy you ??
Or are they exercising their subtle powers of manipulation to control you for their own gratification in ways which might even be mutually beneficial ??
Or are you just obsessive and finding yourself fixating on certain people who make an impression which then goes around and around like a tune that is 'catchy' ??
you kept that tiny door wide open. shut it :) and keep a guard outside to check on the visitors.
Perhaps it's because they belong in there! LOL! Seriously, though...