Being a black girl from New York City, its very interracial here, whoever is attracted to someone they go for it, But I think they are afraid because they believe they will be rejected. I approach my crush who is white, but he rejected me. Which shocked me because I honest never been rejected. But uh too bad, Just go for it no matter what, what's the worst that could happen? :)
I approach black women but none of the loud obnoxious hood rat wannabes. I like intelligent woman of all races, the lesser intelligent ones I stay away from. Of course there has to be a phyiscal attraction aswell.
I can't stand hoodrats either..
Me too and I am black.
Because of a pornographic education. They figure you're not interested.
Honestly? I'm more intimidated by them. Haha. I had a bad experience growing up because I was made fun of for being white but I love black women. They're totally hot.
Sorry you had to go through that. ..my dad's best friend was a white lady growing up and her daughter was my best friend. ..we all loved each other. ..I miss that lady so much. ..she treated me better than my own mom.
Being a white guy, I will aproach them socially, who wouldn't? But if you are referring to approaching them along the lines of dating, I personally, will admire a black or hispanic or Asian woman from a distance but as far as dating. I am not really attracted to women outside of my race, not racist, just my preferrence. We all have preferrences, right?
I get approached by white men a lot.
I'm married (to a white women) and have never dated other than white women. Butthat is only because if who was available. I would date a Black, Asian, or Hispanic if I were single and attracted to them. I have seen some stunningly beautiful women of color.
I find it hard to believe you're having this issue...
At the risk of sounding like a dirty old man, you're beautiful. What man wouldn't date you?
Because they know they can't love you. They just want to have sex with you and they feel guilty about that. Don't worry, God gets them real good.
This question has been here for a while but I was interested in reading it anyway. I am a 17 year old black girl who is about to start university in September(btw). I find that people my age are so much more open to different things such as dating outside of their race but I also think a lot of white guys feel threatened. Threatened by black men, threatened by the stereotypes, rejection and what others might think. Often times, attraction is a factor because one white guy might be into black girls and another might not be. The best way to break the ice is to smile and be a little outgoing and a white guy who is interested will most likely feel more comfortable. (and yes I know I'm young lol)
Too complicated due to the historical context? Stupid but possible.
We have a black President. ..anything is possible :) Love should have no boundaries.
Either those white guys are uninterested or scared to get involved. <br />
But, most white guys would be comfortable and interested in certain black women who are similar to Halle Berry, Gabrielle Union, Kerry Washington, Meagan Good, and even First Lady Michelle Obama.
I think that is becoming more common..might just be because they find those of their ethnicity more attractive generally speaking.
In general people are more attracted to people of the same race, most families and partners are not interracial.
To the contrary, Toronto is extremely multicultural and there are many interracial couples but I'm just saying in general, people are more attracted to their own race, this may be why white men are less likely to approach a black woman compared to a white woman.
that's not funny.
i never had that issue o.o
I am approaching you, right here.