I don't do labels
From birth from birth i acted like the boys and didn't love them i just wanted to recel around with them and kick the **** out of um sadly.
but me wearing mens clothing and hanging out with men wasn't what triggered i am gay it was the experiences i had with other women then i learned okay "Somethings up" Because when i looked at a man there was no signal that said love.
I think it happens when you go through puberty
I found out when a male friend got naked & kissed me...I was really aroused & we ended up having sex (I enjoyed it so much, I knew I'd have to do it again). I think I had the proclivity earlier than that, perhaps since birth (as I'd always noticed other guys, and a girlfriend had asked me if I was gay) but I didn't really know for sure until I had that experience.
Why didn't I reject his advance? If I was straight up to that point, wouldn't I have walked away/pushed him away instead of kissing him back & joining him in his bed?
Yes, that was a defining moment...but I had something in me already which caused me to react the way I did.
I first a saw a girl that I liked as a young boy I must have been about 11 or so and I knew i was a male lesbian.I dont know how young the youngest age is but 11 or so was my first crush.
i'm gonna take the next question :D pass!
my mistake :D sorry
I think I knew way before puberty, since I had a crush on a classmate in second grade, even tho I didnt act on my desires/attractions til I was 20 yo and in college..