How do I approach money matters without sounding like I'm trying to control money that isn't really mine?
My fiance and I just moved and I have yet to find a job so the only income we have is his disability. I keep bringing up things that need to be taken care of and he continues to say things along the lines of "if we have the money." the thing is, the other day he just bought 120 dollars worth of video games, even though I tried to suggest that maybe he should just get one game. He also wants to subscribe to Xbox live. It's not my money, I'm not bringing anything to the table right now. But, the money he's spending affects me too. How can I approach the problem with out seeming like I'm trying to control his money?