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How do I break up with someone that I simply lost feelings for?

He is a good guy and didn't do anything wrong. He's is just not the one for me. I don't know what to say or do to end it with out severely hurting him.

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    Whattado - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Whattado Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:59PM

    You can't end it without hurting him - there is nothing you can say or that's going to make him say "Oh that's cool sure I understand perfectly and good luck to you"

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  1. simplegirl14362 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by simplegirl14362 Sep 21st, 2012 at 8:00PM

    Is there anything I can do to lighten the blow?

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  2. Whattado - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by Whattado Sep 21st, 2012 at 8:01PM

    nope

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5 Answers to "How do I break up with someone that I simply lost feelings for?"

  1. questionWeaver - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by questionWeaver Sep 21st, 2012 at 8:16PM

    Be honest . . . be direct . . . don't date immediately afterwards . . . share some of the grieving period . . . celebrate the good you had together . . . and definitely don't wear sexy clothes around him! . . .Turn down dinner offers from him . . .even if it would be fun . . . and provide a common version of why you aren't together anymore . . . and "it didn't feel right" is perfectly fine.

    Do note . . . I don't get relationship advice right anymore than I get auto repairs done right . . . be warned

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  2. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 Sep 21st, 2012 at 8:02PM

    honesty

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  3. swoonbaby - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by swoonbaby Sep 21st, 2012 at 8:02PM

    Its a hard thing to do and I know because it was something I just did in June. The way I did it was by changing my cell phone number. He cant call u, or text u..Stick with it . If you give in then what good was it to change your number/.

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  4. simplegirl14362 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by simplegirl14362 Sep 21st, 2012 at 8:04PM

    I don't want to just disappear, that seems cruel. Someone did that to me before, it was the worst feeling ever. I'd never do that to someone.

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  5. swoonbaby - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by swoonbaby Sep 22nd, 2012 at 6:05PM

    Well I dont know what to tell u, Ya it sucks , sure it does, but how bad do u want this to end? And how fast?

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  6. jatpack3 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by jatpack3 Sep 21st, 2012 at 7:59PM

    I like to take a good dump in the morning.

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