good luck with that...
mine is the same as you guys know...
so you have been seperated for a yr and ahalf and her keeps sniffing around?.. creepy
Straight out, serious, no emotion, and do not mince words...
"Look (his name) we are done, it is over between you and I and the only reason that I want to still talk to you is because of the children."
time.. and seldom is friendship ever at the end with kids. Demi Moore rule excluded.
depending on personality of the guy it may be brutal. Just keep eyes out on his behavior. Don't be alone with him.
I'd keep an eye on that one. The order was a smart move. Just make sure he sticks to it and so do you. :) good luck