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How do I deal with someone who seems to hold a grudge against me?

I'm 14 years old and taking soccer for my P.E credit in highschool. My soccer class comes right after my math class, which is one of my worst classes and one in which I work really hard and feel really stressed. I was borderline B, so everyday I would come into soccer feeling stressed as he!l. I'm pretty clumsy as a person overall, and I think I'm pretty bad at soccer, but since I try really hard and run very fast, and I'm extremely aggressive due to the stress, it makes up for it.
So there's this guy called Justin, and he's alright I guess. I don't remember why, but I told him to **** off one time. Anyways, everytime I play goalie, he's always the one scoring goals; it's almost as if he hoovers by the goal when I'm by the goal. And when he scores, he kicks it HARD. Everyone else sort of goes easy on my because I'm a pretty terrible goalie, but he kicks it HARD. Do you think he holds a grudge on me because of my "f**ck off?" If so, what should I do?

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    kimmygary - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by kimmygary Mar 20th, 2013 at 5:25PM

    start blocking his shots better, yes i think he does hold a grudge-or can just ask him why?

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  1. ptrsoos - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by ptrsoos Mar 20th, 2013 at 5:30PM

    talk to him somehow

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  2. SingleDad2013 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by SingleDad2013 Mar 20th, 2013 at 5:24PM

    **** that noise, and let them get over themselves.

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