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Linda4444
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How do I deal with the death of my son?

He died due to Army medical incompidence. I have all the records to prove it, but you cant sue the Army. He didnt have to die, so much malpractice was done to him! I have to let someone know,,for him and other soldiers.!!He can't die in silence as he died alone!
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mzdivine
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I am so sorry for you!

All you can do is take it a day at a time!

To use a cliche,Life goes on!

Talk to as many people as you like and DO NOT keep your EMOTIONS bottled up!

Eventually, your grief will subside!...I PROMISE!

Good Luck!

mzd!!
Posted 4 months ago

Other 10 Answers to How do I deal with the death of my son?


sharossody
Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 5:47PM
My son died ten yrs ago, result of car accident... I know how your feeling... to lose a child is the worst thing that can happen to you... they are a part of you and it changes your life forever.....talk about him, to anyone and everyone, keep him in your life until one day instead of thinking about him every minute you will be grateful HE was here.
Hugs to you.
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Duckgirl
Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 3:00AM
Im very sorry for your loss. I hope you can find some confort from a support group. You might contact a local minister search the yellow pages for a group or find another mom who has faced such loss. I have a dear from whos son died only it was of suicide. Its been a few years and she came a long way. Sending sympathy your way.
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piscesgal
Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 10:46PM
You need a good support group, friends, family and maybe a therapist. It's going to take a lot of crying and talking about things to get to where you can start to feel a little less sad. You will always hurt from this, I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your son, but good friends that can listen(even when you just need to repeat yourself) will be crucial for you. Best wishes, and once again I'm sorry for your loss. You'll be in my thoughts.
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laceset
Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 10:51PM
You need to find a support group.

If your are a writer send him a note in a ballon and send it
to the sky.

I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your son.

I will pray for you.

Sincerely,Tina
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misslucero
Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 11:18PM
My boyfriend is in the army : ( I am so sorry for your loss, there are no words I could say to make it any easier for you, but I am truly sorry.
Hugs
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icemann
Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 11:58PM
remember him, your thoughts are powerful. my love is with you.
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lespaulmarK
Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 12:40AM
You can never for get know matter what you do its best to try to remember the good thing's because it will only tear you up inside it took me a long time to learn that,
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yakfisher
Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 8:31PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for his service. He will live on in your heart.
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edgargeorge
Posted Jul 1st, 2009 at 7:56PM
Oh, I'm so sorry! Have you spoken to your Congressional representatives about what happened? If your evidence is compelling, you might be able to get your Congressmen to intervene and make the system safer for other service people. It doesn't replace your son, but it would be maybe one way to work through the grief.

Again, I'm so sorry. My deepest sympathies.
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rdt
Posted Jul 1st, 2009 at 10:38PM
I don't know the answer, but praying for you and peace. I can't even begin to imagine your pain. God bless.
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