How do I face him again?

His fiance probably sent you the message on Facebook....and I wouldn't be interested anyway...he's engaged...you have feelings for him....it's just a complicated web, you are weaving....He apparently isn't sure what/who he wants, and doesn't have the, let's say, guts to figure it out.

Just accept that he has moved on and smile be courteous (or ignore him) be civil but accept that he has moved on. My daughter has a similar situation with her ex. She's moved on but would like to preserve the friendship. Horrible abusive marriage but still hangs on to the friendship. He tends to play games with her though. Sends her texts messages then reuses to talk. She loves her husband but it tears her apart to see her ex.

Why would you want to? Sounds like his fiance has him whipped into shape and he doesn't seem like he'd be much fun to know anymore. So just smile, say hi, and move on.

Yes you should have the courage to face him again because youdid nothing wrong and if ou have moved on it wouldn't make a difference to you.

i say leave it alone trust me if you keep setting yourself up for getting his attention your just gonna get hurt even more. and in time he might come around. don't spend your life waiting live it god bless you

Sometimes the only thing you can do is to be cordial and let time heal things between you. And why should you need courage to look him in the eyes? What's done is done. You dated once and foolishly ended it.

Since you told him how you feel, the next step would be his. But since he's engaged, that may not happen for quite some time.

So you can either move on and try to keep his memories in their proper perspective, or sit around and wait to see if his engagement lasts and he contacts you. In the meantime, you could be missing out on your Prince Charming while you're waiting.

My ex g/f ended our relationship on what I thought were BS reasons. She just got married within the last 2 months ago maybe. I've thought about her every day since (over 14 months) and what we lost. And she won't accept my friend requests on Face Book. There's nothing I can do about it though except hope she's happy and maybe one day she opens her eyes to who really loved her.

Till then, you just gotta put one foot in front of the other. If you see this guy, be polite and say hi, and maybe a little casual chit chat, then walk away.

hugs baby* work on your self confidence -- you may find that your perceptions and feelings about him change.

It does sound like he's wipped and that his fiance may have access to his Facebook account. She does or she had him delete you and send the message. If/when you do see him out just be friendly but don't suggest anything. Just keep it pleasant and don't attempt any physical contact (hugs, ect..) with him. You didn't do anything wrong so just give it time and let things fall where they fall.

tbh, i think what you need to do
is listen to some really godo upbeat, happy songs remember you came into this world without him and you can sure as hell get through it without him
it's gonaa suck like a ***** the first time you see him but really all you need to do is show yourself that you're happy. just smile and be who you were before he decided to try and ruin you. :) good luckk
xx