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How do I find out if he is still seeing another woman. Caught him first time by the cell phone bill.?

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If you don't trust him, whatever whether he cheats or not, you'll always feel that way.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 2:53PM
Surprise him and show up when he goes somewhere without you so he is never sure when you might turn up. Keep watching his patterns. If you are suspicious do not let him know why you are thinking that. He will deny, deny, deny or change his pattern. If he is truly sorry for what he has done and values your relationship he will stick close to you as much as possible.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 2:13PM
if he is acting differently from before
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 2:23PM
How about asking him outright? He might answer truthfully... never know!

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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 2:30PM
ask him outright see what his reaction is like,is he out late working more ect?if he denies it you could try sugesting going to couples therpy to see if this will help if he is 100% dedicated he would be open to this. good luck x
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 3:06PM
Call Cheaters
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 3:07PM
The exact same thing happened to me and it didn't turn out well, but I can give you hints here: Firstly, does he know if he has been caught? If so, does he get mad if you keep bringing it up? Does he look guilty after you return from some errand, when you've been apart? Is he intimate with you in the same way as before? Does he claim he's tired all of the time? Is he overdoing repentance? This is what happened to me for a year after the discovery, just some hints.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 3:19PM
If you live in the same home, watch his behavior,body language..routine. Stay on the cell phone idea..he could have a number under any name & it's really her. Your radar will kick in. Listen and check it out.Plus, be reasonable at all times.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 3:49PM
Ask him.
More important, do both of you want to stay with each other? If so, then you both have to get serious.
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 4:10PM
Being alone ain't gonna kill you
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 9:06PM
You caught him the first time? Why did you allow there to be a second time?
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Posted Jun 27th, 2009 at 9:59PM
Pretty much, if your suspicious, your hunch is right about something (as allot of people already said.) I say, be desecrate abou8t your findings till you have enough evidence. He will play the "Oh, you went through my stuff card". You, as his women, have a right now though. His "stuff" if your stuff. And really, he is more at fault.
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Posted Jun 28th, 2009 at 12:04AM
If you dont trust him then why are you still with him?
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