How do I get my husband to come back to me after he has said that i have driven him away with my insecurities?

suggest that you go to marriage counseling together and you get separate counseling for your trust issues. Good luck

Bullshit. He wanted to leave anyway, and is trying to blame you. Don't fall for it for a second. Instead, go out and have the time of your life. Once he sees he can't bully you with blame tactics, he'll come slobbering back. Mark my words.

Is what your husband told you true? Are you REALLY insecure, or is the REASON you're insecure because he's been cheating on you?

If he's been cheating on you, then what he's calling your "insecurities" were CREATED by him, and are his fault, not yours.

If I really didn't want to end the marriage, I might attempt to convince him to go to counseling with me, however if he won't?

If he's cheating, I'd recommend you get a good divorce attorney and nail him to the wall! Oh, and in MY state? Well, it's "community property" and everything is split 50/50, however you CAN sue your husband's mistress for "alienation of affection" and "interference in your marital relationship" and you might not win, but the sham of public exposure of such cases often has the effect of splitting up the relationship between the husband and mistress. Best of luck!

I would get some help with going to classes and learn how to be more sure of your self.Being apart and away from family for a while is going to make you stronger where you will have to believe in your self and you will grow up a lot.After you feel like you are changing ask your husband if he would like to start dating again.

just tell 'im that he can have the remote next time?

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he feels more secure with her. he is just giving you a cheap excuse and you are swallowing it.

it is time to over on. there other fish out there and your husband is a carp. carp are bottom feeders,they are good for fertilizer and little else.

Do you think you did that ? Be truthful with yourself. If you have security issues, and if it's not to late, get help for both of you. Good luck.

If he has told you the relationship is over, its OVER.