Tell him what you want. Tell him what you don't want. Simple, eh.
its very simple....<br />
You have needs..... he has needs (ie the sick sh1t hes too scared to ask you for)<br />
Give him his in installments but only in so far as he can demonstrate his growing proficiency in pleasing you with yours....<br />
Like training a dog.....<br />
You give him a treat when he gets it right.... other wise you pull his choker and take it from the top.
As B.F.Skinner taught us: when he talks sweetly, respond immediately and wholeheartedly. Otherwise, wait patiently until he talks sweetly.
Whatever you do, don't drop hints and then wonder why he didn't get it. men are very direct and if you want to be sure you need to be very direct.
sweet talk is sweet but naughty is hmmmm,its a must.but not ugly naughty,think about it
Tell him that you like that. Some guys are slow to pick up on that stuff, so you just have to come out and say it.