go out with his best friend to get to him
Go get laid.
...I can attest that I found this method very helpful...
I'll rephrase... Go get laid... a bunch.
Loving someone is not codependency, its love. You may never really get over the betrayal. Good for u not accepting the unacceptable. Its Life. Focus on loving others and yourself as you should be loved and know that betrayal is one of lifes most painful lessons.
Might I recommend a really great book that has been a big help to me, "Codependent No More" by Melodie Beattie. You may find it helpful.
sorry for what happened to you, same happened to me, people say time, ain't working so far for me, hope it gets better for you.
Just be thankful it was only one year! Moving on should be easier.
First of all sorry to hear that...secondly....it's best to move on...realistically it's gonna take time...however there are a zillion things which should be better than this cheater
Ugh I'm sorry. It's not gonna be easy. I was with my fiance for four years and she left me in February. I'm still not over it. My best advice would be to cut off all contact as quickly as possible. Change your phone number if you have to, I did. Then just take it one day at a time. Read my story if you like, it's all about that.
Yeah I would change your number if you can. I know in my case I wasn't able to start moving on until I stopped talking to her. It was really difficult to make the decision to change it, but once I did I was much better off.