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How do I get over my fear of guys?

I really want to find someone to be in a relationship with, but guys make me nervous. I usually avoid them if possible.

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    Sasuke276 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Sasuke276 Jan 3rd, 2013 at 9:43PM

    Lol Just be honest and talk to them ^_^ Guys like shy girls lol

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16 Answers to "How do I get over my fear of guys?"

  1. ipanemaguy - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by ipanemaguy Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:19PM

    Just picture them naked.

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  2. animallover110293 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by animallover110293 Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:20PM

    I think that'll just make things worse, haha.

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  3. ipanemaguy - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by ipanemaguy Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:22PM

    In all seriousness, you need to find out why guys make you nervous.

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  4. TIMeNIHIL - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by TIMeNIHIL Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:17PM

    find some nerds. we're non-threatening because we're just as scared as you are.

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  5. robbiew8n - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by robbiew8n Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:33PM

    aw..... scared is good ;-))

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  6. TIMeNIHIL - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by TIMeNIHIL Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:34PM

    scared is safe.

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  7. Wigglebottom - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Wigglebottom Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:17PM

    First figure out, "WHY" they make you nervous and then you can go from there in getting over it.

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  8. Steven46 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Steven46 Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:17PM

    (Hastily builds bleachers for myself and fellow ep'ers to watch stampede of perve's rush to this question.)

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  9. KinkyJerseyCpl - 46-50 years old

    Posted by KinkyJerseyCpl Dec 28th, 2012 at 9:15PM

    What do you find so scary? Are you perhaps projecting an imagining a bundle of emotions and scenarios of which probably won't happen while keeping yourself safe from your own desires instead of simply accepting another for whom he or she is and then observing an understanding your emotional reaction along with possibly over- coming a common fear?
    Fear of an unknown comes from within; patients, curiosity, a bit of fortitude and common sense lead us through and beyond our fears.

    There is nothing to fear but fear it's self :)

    As long as you don't blindly place yourself repeatedly into unsafe practices.

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  10. Treyt - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Treyt Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:40PM

    I don't know, maybe just hang around them a lot. Facing your fears is a pivotal point in life. I think you should start to try and take control of your fears. Think and find the true reason guys make you nervous, once you find the root of it, dismantle it.

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  11. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by fakeola Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:37PM

    You will have to put yourself in situations where you need to interact with them and get used to it.

    It may be hard at first, but I'm sure you will learn. :)

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  12. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Indie42 Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:20PM

    Do you have a guy friend you are comfortable with? That you trust? You could start there. Hang out with him a little.

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  13. animallover110293 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by animallover110293 Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:24PM

    No, I have no guy friends at all and haven't for a while.

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  14. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by Indie42 Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:25PM

    Well, that might be the place you start then.

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  15. staire - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by staire Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:17PM

    well all i can say is,try be yourself,and it will happen,and in the mean time.enjoy life.relax

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  16. reubles - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by reubles Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:17PM

    become lesbian.

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  17. ballucanb1 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by ballucanb1 Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:17PM

    You tell me and we will both know.

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  18. BlueXian - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by BlueXian Dec 29th, 2012 at 7:26AM

    Making friends with girls online helped me a lot, by the time I met new girls in real life I'd forgotten I was scared of talking to them. I still appeared a little nervous (they told me later), but it was a big improvement. Also, confidence seems to appear for me when I don't expect it.

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  19. Triundi - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Triundi Dec 28th, 2012 at 9:19PM

    Are you attractive? That's a shortcut.

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  20. zombiii - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by zombiii Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:21PM

    You are intimidated by a perception. Someone on here will could guide you I'm sure.

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  21. nobleicus - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by nobleicus Dec 28th, 2012 at 8:18PM

    Flash your **** and they'll come to you

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