what is he doing that got you obsessed or maybe in fact it is what he is NOT doing that got you obsessed... <br />
at times I realised I am too comfortable (or afraid) to welcome a new love one. Or too afraid to go thru the process again... and be disappointed. <br />
20 yrs ago, I intentionally zzz with someone else to eradicate an emotional bondage with the current bf because it was sooooooo hard to break up with him. We were clearly in love but totally incompatible!; fought too much, hurt each other too much but loved much too! <br />
Due to my infidelity he was crushed and I successfully broke the emotional ties and went my way...<br />
Not for everyone but it worked for me at least....
I see nothing wrong with your healthy obsession!
Juz Do not turn it into fatal attraction!
What in the wold does a man have that is worth obsessing about in the first place?
You have to get out of bed sometime. If that's all he's got, well, he doesn't have much to offer then.
best way to get over some one is to get under a new some one!